Medical aid in dying
Monsieur will be leaving us today, scheduled for 7:15 pm.
It will be the end of a happy life, the end of a suffering. Two weeks ago, we learned that Monsieur had requested medical assistance in dying.
What courage! Yes, it's courageous and dignified at the same time. But what do we do when we know the date of our end? What do we do during these two weeks, which fly by at the speed of light?
Announcement and preparation
When you learn that someone has decided to use medical aid in dying, the emotions are many and complex. For Monsieur, the choice was clear and well-considered. He had discussed it at length with his family and doctors. His wish was to leave with dignity, without pain, and in control of his departure.
Saying goodbye
The two weeks leading up to the fateful date are precious. He has chosen to spend them surrounded by those closest to him. The farewells are intense, but serene. Every moment is precious, every conversation profound. Memories, laughter and tears are shared. Everything is said, with nothing left unsaid. He took advantage of every moment to express his love and say goodbye. These days were a celebration of his life, a farewell imbued with peace and serenity.
Last wishes
Monsieur, a proud and upright man, was a meticulous architect who loved a job well done. He always took good care of his family. During these two weeks, he took advantage of the time to put his affairs in order. He drew up his last will and testament, and made sure everything was ready to make things easier for his family after he was gone. It was an act of love, a final gift for those who remain.
Moments of calm
There are also moments of calm, moments when Monsieur simply enjoys silence, nature and the little things he loves. He meditates, reflects, takes stock of his life. These moments are filled with serenity. He knows his decision is the right one for him.
D-Day
Today is D-Day. At 7:15 p.m., Monsieur will leave this world. He is doing so with courage and dignity, surrounded by those he loves. His last moments will be peaceful and painless, exactly as he wished. He has chosen to leave in peace, in all conscience, before the Parkinson's disease that has taken such a toll on his body degenerates and renders him bedridden and crystallizes his brain.
Reflection
This situation reminds us of the importance of living in the moment. Health and time are two precious riches, often underestimated until we become aware of them when faced with circumstances such as these.
Living each moment to the full, appreciating the little things, expressing love and gratitude - these are the things that give deep meaning to life. We shouldn't wait for a crisis before realizing what really matters, but rather integrate this awareness into our daily lives. It's in these present moments, in the health we have today and in the time we're given, that the true richness of our existence lies.
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